Not one for normally doing this but i'd add the following
gxrfan
New message from: gxrfan (38)
Hey there, I know this is terrible E-Bay form, but i was wondering if it would be OK to cancel this order if it has not shipped yet.
I had a personal emergency come up that requires some money allocation to another source.
If the book is still up at a later time, i'll revisit it for sure.
Appreciate your consideration and again my apologies.
He paid for it at 7PM UK time and by time i got home from work he had sent this.......i'm a pretty laid back guy but this pissed me off i canceled and will be blocking