well, that's just ridiculous.
we're all ostensibly adults, here. and a community of collectors to boot, who hopefully can look out for one another to a wee higher degree than the morass on eBay.
if i decide to sell a book and someone cannot bring themselves to honor their commitment for whatever reason - and avoids dealing with me directly to resolve the issue - then there will be ramifications.
giving people carte blanche to be *spoon*s just because they "changed their mind" is just stupid
consider the source of the statement....