Etiquette in garage sales, estate sales, thrift shops, etc.

[AKA Rick]

"Treat others the way you would like to be treated"

 

So, be precise in your communication without being rude or vague, but at the same time don't seem so hungry and specific where they'll sense they have a sucker and will mark up their merchandise based on your actions and reactions.

 

I think it's okay to let people know what you're looking for to not waste your time.

 

Know of course you're on opposite sides, and the happy medium is somewhere in the middle. Negotiate respectfully. If you see a good deal, don't try to make it into a great deal and potentially ruin that existing deal. A lot of sellers hate folks who nickle and dime A lot of buyers hate sellers who tell buyers to make an offer with a "what's it worth to you?"

 

If you see a great deal, like an Action #1 at $0.50, don't try to negotiate down to cover price at $0.10 and also don't tell the person what they have in an effort of being kind, it's treasure hunting, and if you didn't stumble upon it and buy it, someone else would have, so don't feel bad or guilty.

 

If others are looking at merchandise, be respectful of them and knock 'em over. If you're looking at merchandise and there's multiple boxes, be respectful of others and let them in. It's the sellers merchandise, not the shoppers, so everyone should have equal access to browse. I hate seeing buyers tell other buyers "I've not gone through those yet" as if they've laid a stake and claim in advance. Just like how many will try to guide others to the boxes they've already picked through. It's called tough luck, as picking through sloppy seconds could reap some rewards, but it's not for the other shoppers to decide upon how others are to browse.

[kav]

If you stumble on Action #1 at a yard sale do not act all excited-toss the book around a bit like it's worthless then mumble 'Howmuch ya want fer this?'

[fmaz]

And honestly, on the lottery-winning low chance of coming upon a deal of a lifetime? If you want to make yourself feel better and really make the seller happy? Pay asking for the comics but then also find the biggest (in bulk) item you can fit in your car that's cheap and buy that. A boogie board, a painting of clowns, an end table. It'll thrill them to get rid of something big.

 

Wait, check that. Don't buy the clown painting. Clowns are scary. But otherwise, that advice is sound. Buy something else to be a nice person.