This happens a lot so, maybe others will benefit from this post. If someone says something that offends you, the best thing to do is report the post and let me handle it. What I see happen is, the person that is being offended confronts the other person. Back and forth posts occur, and I am invited to the party too late. When I read the posts between the two parties involved, most of the time the offending blows have balanced to the point where I can either tell both people to stop now, or I can issue them both warnings. If I am notified right off instead of replying to the person, I can then take action, if I find the post offensive enough to do so. Sometimes, it doesn't quite violate the terms of use. In that case, I will mark it under review. If it happens again and I see a pattern, I will then take action. Instead of doing the same thing every time, try this approach. It may take a little time to see change but, I can guarantee you that it will happen. Or, you can continue to take matters into your own hands, and the loop that offends you will never end.
BTW, this goes for multiple people on these boards. I am not singling anyone out.