How do you know who the problem was in the relationship?
Maybe it was both. Or maybe not. But speculating like this is just plain unreasonable.
Roy, you are always very wise. These things are just sad and I agree with Foolkiller: if you have so much spare time, just pray for that broken family and (even more) for their kids.
Didn't the wife came on here and explained her side of the story?
I can't find the thread.
yes, she did.
I do however suggest we end the convo here.
This pretty much sums it up.