I dont blame him at all, but too many F&F/personal and you bring undo attention on oneself.
I know the seller and I would have no cause to question if he would send the books, but because of the the attention my own account would get, I just make the Goods and services payment and leave it at that. It's never a problem with him, he never insists and he is very reliable, not trying to pull anything. I buy from him a lot, great seller.
Does 'checks and MO only' affect sales? Is this a reliable option?