Sharon,
I have a child with special needs. I have gone to classes, support groups. Work with his class on a regular basis. I cannot count how many dollars have been spent on social bridges groups, tutoring, etc. If anyone has compassion for the handicapped it is me. It has hit close to home. I don't see this in Trey, I don't. Maybe he is a little off socially but the elaborate stories he concocts tells me he knows exactly what he is doing.
After all the years I have been here I know Roy will be Roy so I take that with a grain of salt. I personally feel there is never a reason to condone any action based on the "handicap" card. Some things are truly beyond a persons control, but that is not the case with Trey. He was deceptive twice in the same thread first listing a cropped PGX scan and then lying about it and telling those asking to take their business elsewhere.
I probably would give someone who was handicapped more leeway, Joey...but as I said, I'm not sure that this is the case here at all. I'm not exactly sure why people keep bringing it up. :shrug:
He's done some really "dumb" things...but they would still appear to be in the normal range.
As for Roy...he travels to beat of a different drummer, he's Roy.
Personally, I'd be fine with a special election/poll for Trey to be added to the probation list with an asterick. I'm not sure that he qualifies for anything else, but I agree with those who would like to see him listed as a warning (not that everyone pays attention to the list, but it's like chicken soup...it can't hurt;)
Sharon
I hope you know you're one of my favorite people and I appreciate the latitude given to a disabled person (not saying that is the case with Trey) but one additional thought here.
I too have a special needs child (it is not a learning disability). I would never want my child nor does my child (she is 15) want to be given preferential treatment. This is not to say that accommodations shouldn't be provided and accepted but to us that is not preferential - it merely levels a playing field. She wants to achieve (or fail) based on her merits and I applaud and am proud of her courage for feeling so.
And I know you can't generalize disabilities nor should you so this is specific only to me and my daughter's situation.