Ok, Just for the record...I just got $60.00 refund to my paypal from "Sid". I did let him know there was another forum member who was out $200.00 and he didn't have any recollection of the deal.
Yes, as stated by another forum member, he is currently involved in a family matter involving a new bride in Nepal (so, certainly congratulations are in order). When I emailed him he had mentioned to me he will be out of town for about a month looking after the matter, but will email me a refund before he leaves, and he came through.
I had recommended to him to get back onto the forum when he gets back so he could look after the matter, but also am thinking whoever the forum member is that is out the $200.00...email him and let him know. I've got a feeling if he knows about the indescretion, he will look after it. But again, be patient....as he will be out of town for a month.