1st Kamala Khan is Captain Marvel # 14.
Unnamed. Is this the issue where she is in her dorm room on the last couple of pages and they don't even show her, just her arm or something?
There is no dispute here. Captain Marvel #14 is the 1st Appearance of Kamala Khan.
In the series, Khan takes the name Ms. Marvel from Carol Danvers, who now goes by the alias Captain Marvel. Captain Marvel writer Kelly Sue DeConnick revealed that Khan actually made a brief appearance in Captain Marvel #14 (August 2013) saying, "Kamala is in the background of a scene in Captain Marvel 14... She is very deliberately placed in a position where she sees Carol protecting civilians from Yon-Rogg."[5] About Khan's relationship with Danvers, Wilson said
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ms._Marvel_(Kamala_Khan)
Captain Marvel #17 - 1st Appearance of Kamala Khan as the New Ms. Marvel
Um, who's disputing what? The first word in my reply is "Unnamed", which is exactly the situation you just described.