Well that's the key isn't it? Let the seller know beforehand. But in my book, if you hit the and haven't notified me beforehand you don't have the money available then you are wrong, plain and simple...
Letting your mouse clicker get ahead of your actual ability to pay promptly is a bad habit to get into...
Jim
Absolutely. NEVER, EVER, EVER post the without having the money in pocket, or a plan in place with the seller.
The problem with this place is that, especially to the newbie, it's like being let loose in a sweet shop. So many lovely books, nice people to deal with, nothing in the way of repercusions...some people go frickin' mad and when the haze finally clears, they finally realise that they are unable to meet their obligations.