No sir, I do not know why you were placed on the list. But I can see your sincerity in getting off of the list.
I was just looking at ways members like yourself, who are sincere in there desire to make things right, a way of getting back into the fold without having to make multiple purchases over the course of an extended period of time.
I have no doubt in your sincerity to make things right sir... I was just tossing out an option that would make it quicker and easier for people, like yourself who want to attone, to get back to enjoying all the board has to offer in a way that appeases everyone. And quicker too.
As a seller here, I personally want everyone who can buy, who are willingly to buy & those who will abide by board & seller rules... be given every oppurtunity to participate. I'm sure that all sellers here would wish the same... even if thats not how it always plays out.
This is not brain surgery, it's simple. If you agree to purchase something, pay for it in a timely manner or let the person know, in a timely manner why you can't do that and see if you can work something out.
If you SELL something, send it once it's paid for, in a timely manner and make sure it's as described. If you can't send it, explain why and send a refund. If you screw up and send something that's not as described (and stuff happens) make it right in a timely manner without being nudged by the community.
Also very important is to be able to prove that you have sent what you sold. If your parcel gets lost in the post and you have no proof of postage then it's not gonna look good.