Niagara falls, Ont:
 

I'd say on this point he is busted.

2 minutes ago, kav said:

I'd say on this point he is busted.

Pfff and you actually believe that? You know I live in a tourist trap right? Of course they're gonna say it's an amazing an great place. I'm telling you what's actually there. We recently had a few shootings and kidnappings, car break ins. They won't tell you that. Would you go there if you knew?

Just now, uchiha101 said:

Pfff and you actually believe that? You know I live in a tourist trap right? Of course they're gonna say it's an amazing an great place. I'm telling you what's actually there. We recently had a few shootings and kidnappings, car break ins. They won't tell you that. Would you go there if you knew?

Hi crime areas dont generally trap tourists.

2 minutes ago, kav said:

Hi crime areas dont generally trap tourists.

Let me just say that most tourists aren't the smartest bunch. Also, I'm saying what I am being I wouldn't want someone to get hurt when they believe nothing of danger would come to them. 

you seem to be a well spoken intelligent person its hard for me to understand why you would believe someone you havent met and that suspiciously wont send you a pic has super powers, just on her word.

3 minutes ago, kav said:

you seem to be a well spoken intelligent person its hard for me to understand why you would believe someone you havent met and that suspiciously wont send you a pic has super powers, just on her word.

Well she's been honest with me this entire time and I have access to her account. Also, I'm aware that powers such as hers are a real thing. 

14 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

Are you kidding me? Save a few people, no one is paying attention.

Ok don't laugh yes? I turned her down every time because whenever she would ask to speak to me face to face I would look like mess. I don't know how that kept happening but she said she would never let herself go and yet, I didn't want her to see me like that because she deserves better than that.

Dont you think you will lose her if you don't show yourself to her.  She will think you are the fraud.  Also seems hurtful to her to not even want to actually see her. How do you think that makes her feel. 

2 minutes ago, Axmen said:

Dont you think you will lose her if you don't show yourself to her.  She will think you are the fraud.  Also seems hurtful to her to not even want to actually see her. How do you think that makes her feel. 

Well I haven't shown myself to her either that's true. It's not that I don't want to see her it's just she has weird timing. Sam knows how I feel about her.

Dude figure out how to monetize your journal - practically going viral here on the boards.  Maybe get a few pics up of Sam in some of her "flexible" contortionist positions.  That would also shut all these non-believers up!!

2 minutes ago, Axmen said:

Dude figure out how to monetize your journal - practically going viral here on the boards.  Maybe get a few pics up of Sam in some of her "flexible" contortionist positions.  That would also shut all these non-believers up!!

Wow, am I really going viral? That's pretty cool. 

10 minutes ago, uchiha101 said:

Wow, am I really going viral? That's pretty cool. 

Seriously though bro.  It sounds like Sam is incredible - beautiful, intelligent, and super powers - having been in this world over 50 years I can guarantee you are going to lose her if you don't get your passport situation handled and get up there to meet her in person.  For real, your behavior is not that of a loving husband that would do anything for his wife.  Think about it, you are telling her she is not important enough for you to get a little cash together and get your up there to be with her.  On the real you are blowing it - you better get it together QUICK!! 

1 minute ago, Axmen said:

Seriously though bro.  It sounds like Sam is incredible - beautiful, intelligent, and super powers - having been in this world over 50 years I can almost guarantee you are going to lose her if you don't get your passport situation handled and get up there to meet her in person.  For real, your behavior is not that of a loving husband that would do anything for his wife.  Think about it, you are telling her she is not important enough for you to get a little cash together and get your up there to be with her.  On the real you are blowing it - you better get it together QUICK!! 

Sam really is amazing. I've been talking to her that I will get my passport and ID updated so that I can visit her and her sister. She knows this. But seriously, I am bad with directions and before I leave I want to make sure I go to the right place and not end up in the wrong city. 

1 minute ago, uchiha101 said:

Sam really is amazing. I've been talking to her that I will get my passport and ID updated so that I can visit her and her sister. She knows this. But seriously, I am bad with directions and before I leave I want to make sure I go to the right place and not end up in the wrong city. 

ok Im just letting you know - women do not put up with dudes who sound like they are making excuses for not coming to see them.  Talking about doing it is fine, but eventually she is gonna get tired of waiting.  Sounds like she is the best thing that ever happened to you, I dont want you to lose out.  you may never meet a girl with superpowers again!

Just now, Axmen said:

ok Im just letting you know - women do not put up with dudes who sound like they are making excuses for not coming to see them.  Talking about doing it is fine, but eventually she is gonna get tired of waiting.  Sounds like she is the best thing that ever happened to you, I dont want you to lose out.  you may never meet a girl with superpowers again!

Thanks I appreciate that. I don't intend to leave her hanging. I will be seeing Sam and yes, she's one of the best things to ever happen to me. 

7 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

Do you count flexibility as a power? She said that she wasn't able to be that flexible until after she got those powers.

I signed up for a Yoga class last month, the teacher asked me "how flexible are you?" I said "I can't make Tuesdays."

8 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

Ok. Both are me btw. 

I like it

The Disheveled look

Like in Zoolander 

"Dere-lict"

It works for you

If you had a small cashflow I would advise

1. Helmut Lang torn shirt

2. Levi's Jean's ripped at the knees

3. Ankle socks

4. Lacoste Rayford shoes

Work the look!

And learn this song

It's old,but it still commands respect,especially verse two.

Tell Sam

"Tell me is it cool to ,did you think I came to talk? Am I a fool or what?"

7 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

I'm not most folks.

Understatement of the Year.

6 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

Sam really is amazing. I've been talking to her that I will get my passport and ID updated so that I can visit her and her sister. She knows this. But seriously, I am bad with directions and before I leave I want to make sure I go to the right place and not end up in the wrong city. 

You’re lying and you’re afraid.

6 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

Wow, am I really going viral? That's pretty cool. 

Not in a good way Gabe...Not in a good way...

Just now, mattn792 said:

You’re lying and you’re afraid.

I agree about the fear.

And this can happen with people who cant see their success,they develop an inferiority complex and look for someone stronger than themselves,but than they can never meet that persons expectations,so it actually makes the complex even worse.

Than they begin to create a false reality for themselves,one that is built on deceit,and the problem with that is,they begin to believe this fable because it protects them from the pain of their lack of self confidence.

What you need to do Gabe is believe in yourself,first and foremost.

Develop a strong work ethic,self love and supreme focus on the goals you want to achieve in life.

But these have to be realistic goals

Use the SMART goal setting module

S-Specific

M-Measurable

A-Achievable

R-Relavant,Realistic

T-Time Framed

The goal setting is a strategy

While the steps are the tactics to completing your overall objectives

6 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

Thanks I appreciate that. I don't intend to leave her hanging. I will be seeing Sam and yes, she's one of the best things to ever happen to me. 

How about this...How about you invite "Sam" and her "sister" to join the boards and vouch for your "relationship" here? I mean, if you are "married" or whatever, that shouldn't be a problem for her right?

21 minutes ago, Wall-Crawler said:

How about this...How about you invite "Sam" and her "sister" to join the boards and vouch for your "relationship" here? I mean, if you are "married" or whatever, that shouldn't be a problem for her right?

I agree with this

One of your biggest hurdles Gabe is your fear and self confidence

You seem like a good kid who needs proper direction.

7 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

Sam really is amazing. I've been talking to her that I will get my passport and ID updated so that I can visit her and her sister. She knows this. But seriously, I am bad with directions and before I leave I want to make sure I go to the right place and not end up in the wrong city. 

Get it together Gabe

Stop making excuses

I’ve had a long week.  The last 15 pages have really made up for it.