52 minutes ago, theCapraAegagrus said:

That's exactly what a delusional person would say...

And you must have missed the other things I've been saying to.

13 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

Ok. Both are me btw. 

1. How is this thread back? I thought it was locked? Is CGC scared, too?

2. If this is really you, the bottom photo is a pretty good one. I don't go around rating guys (not my thing but no disrespect to any boardie who does), however, you're got a good looking look to you. I don't see why real life girls would be a problem for you. Stay off the internet girls and meet a real ones, like maybe at a restaurant you get a job at! You just need a direction and purpose. Girls can sense that and want it in their boyfriends or husbands or guy friends or whatever the kids say now. Please stay away from the computer and walk down the street and apply at the first nice(r) restaurant you see.

48 minutes ago, Wall-Crawler said:

How much more hurtful can it get?

I kind of get what you are saying/your intention, but if he finds out the relationship is a sham, he would be hurt. However, I would argue that would be less hurtful for him to find out now rather than after he finally gets his passport and bus ticket or whatever to go see god knows who and gets stuck there, or worse.  As much as people are giving him a hard time, most people here trying to tell him that this "relationship" is not real (this is her picture but not her picture/super powers, really?) so he does not get hurt or taken advantage of. 

So you think Sam would be giving a different answer to everyone else as opposed to myself just asking her in person?

I do, however, agree with the advice to stop dikking around about the webcam.  You need to see who you've been talking with all this time.  As others have suggested, set up a day/time for it.  That should give you proper time to get yourself cleaned up and presentable.  

41 minutes ago, Hollywood1892 said:

He has an opportunity to do webcam with her,and shes the one who suggested it,but he refuses.

I agree,this could turn out to be a really bad investment

Financially 

Emotionally 

Psychologically 

Physically

You make me sound like a wreck 

This is weird

3 minutes ago, uchiha101 said:

You make me sound like a wreck 

No

But I can see how this might affect you going south

If it's a woman you want to meet

Try

Bumble

Tinder

Plenty of Fish

Christian Mingle

Dude, this entire situation sounds like too much

What are your friends outside of this site saying?

3 minutes ago, NoMan said:

1. How is this thread back? I thought it was locked? Is CGC scared, too?

2. If this is really you, the bottom photo is a pretty good one. I don't go around rating guys (not my thing but no disrespect to any boardie who does), however, you're got a good looking look to you. I don't see why real life girls would be a problem for you. Stay off the internet girls and meet a real ones, like maybe at a restaurant you get a job at! You just need a direction and purpose. Girls can sense that and want it in their boyfriends or husbands or guy friends or whatever the kids say now. Please stay away from the computer and walk down the street and apply at the first nice(r) restaurant you see.

1) This thread is back because I spoke with the mod that locked it and explained the situation

2) Why do you think I'm lying? Both these pictures are me. Real life girls aren't a problem for me. But I don't want anything to do with the girls here. I won't be satisfied till I see Sam and her sister. Call me stubborn but I don't care about any other girl. I will just blow them off if they try something. 

2 minutes ago, Hollywood1892 said:

No

But I can see how this might affect you going south

If it's a woman you want to meet

Try

Bumble

Tinder

Plenty of Fish

Christian Mingle

Dude, this entire situation sounds like too much

What are your friends outside of this site saying?

My closest friends are rooting for me to meet Sam and her sister and send them pics of what she looks like. I don't WANT more dating websites now stop that.

1 minute ago, uchiha101 said:

My closest friends are rooting for me to meet Sam and her sister and send them pics of what she looks like. I don't WANT more dating websites now stop that.

Just suggestions

I hope it works out for you

2 minutes ago, Hollywood1892 said:

Just suggestions

I hope it works out for you

Really? Then stop trying to set me up with different girls while I am with my wife. That's rude and disrespectful. I'm working on seeing her an you and others are telling me to see other girls. 

1 minute ago, uchiha101 said:

Really? Then stop trying to set me up with different girls while I am with my wife. That's rude and disrespectful. I'm working on seeing her an you and others are telling me to see other girls. 

Because it isnt a drew Barrymore movie

Long distance relationships are hard enough.

When you lack the proper funds it becomes even more unbearable 

1 minute ago, Hollywood1892 said:

Because it isnt a drew Barrymore movie

Long distance relationships are hard enough.

When you lack the proper funds it becomes even more unbearable 

I'll make it clear then. I may not look it but I'm loyal to my wife so I don't want other girls being brought up. Whether you or the other boardies think she's fake, not real, or even a guy go for it. But it doesn't change that fact that I'm with her.

Just now, uchiha101 said:

I'll make it clear then. I may not look it but I'm loyal to my wife so I don't want other girls being brought up. Whether you or the other boardies think she's fake, not real, or even a guy go for it. But it doesn't change that fact that I'm with her.

How long have you been working on your passport?

3 minutes ago, Hollywood1892 said:

How long have you been working on your passport?

In what way? I've got the info of how to do it about a month back.

5 minutes ago, uchiha101 said:

In what way? I've got the info of how to do it about a month back.

So, what is the progress?

8 minutes ago, Hollywood1892 said:

So, what is the progress?

I guess getting my papers in order and seeing how much everything costs.

21 minutes ago, Hollywood1892 said:

Because it isnt a drew Barrymore movie

Long distance relationships are hard enough.

When you lack the proper funds it becomes even more unbearable 

Custom title!

23 minutes ago, uchiha101 said:

I guess getting my papers in order and seeing how much everything costs.

1 hour ago, uchiha101 said:

So you think it's a bad idea? 

Upon reconsideration, don't do that - Don't have them come here.

HOWEVER, if you insist on this "relationship", please webcam or Facetime or Skype or whatever with them over a safe distance several times first before blindly travelling to meet someone and be as sure as you can be that they are who and what they say they are.

Love is blind, but don't be a dumb azzz. Stay safe.

7 minutes ago, Dave2739 said:

You're forgetting the cost of everything else.

1 minute ago, uchiha101 said:

You're forgetting the cost of everything else.

1 minute ago, uchiha101 said:

You're forgetting the cost of everything else.

nope. Sent you a PM with some other things to consider

6 minutes ago, Wall-Crawler said:

Upon reconsideration, don't do that - Don't have them come here.

HOWEVER, if you insist on this "relationship", please webcam or Facetime or Skype or whatever with them over a safe distance several times first before blindly travelling to meet someone and be as sure as you can be that they are who and what they say they are.

Love is blind, but don't be a dumb azzz. Stay safe.

Ok. It's one of the things that I had in mind to do anyway. 

2 hours ago, uchiha101 said:

1) This thread is back because I spoke with the mod that locked it and explained the situation

2) Why do you think I'm lying? Both these pictures are me. Real life girls aren't a problem for me. But I don't want anything to do with the girls here. I won't be satisfied till I see Sam and her sister. Call me stubborn but I don't care about any other girl. I will just blow them off if they try something. 

ok. There is a lot to wade through here so I may have missed this, however: When, specifically, is the day you (we) can meet your wife (?) and sister?

2 minutes ago, NoMan said:

ok. There is a lot to wade through here so I may have missed this, however: When, specifically, is the day you (we) can meet your wife (?) and sister?

Like I said before, I don't know the exact date.