Please try not to overgeneralize, guys. There are good sellers and good buyers. If there's something bothering you, point it out in a less vague way.
A few weeks ago I asked a new seller for references. But I've seen a bunch in the past couple of weeks that I decided to let other people ask instead. I don't really want the reputation of being the first to ask every single new/unknown seller for those.
That's easy. Keep buying from the good/great sellers and if you get burned, well, speak up. Wouldn't be a bad idea to see constructive criticism now and then. (thumbs u