Popular Post D2 Posted March 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2022 I create this thread from a true and genuine place. There will be an attempt to make this thread about comic books, in order to stay relevant to the CGC Forum guidelines, but I truly feel obligated to write this. I write this, because rather than shutting it down and closing up shop, I really do like it here, and out of frustration of the culture that seems to be developing, I want to also hear from other board members to know if I am the only one really experiencing this toxicity. But I do believe that the CGC Forum, for all its wonder, wealth of knowledge, and niche (yes, comic books are definitely niche) interests, has become a place where passive aggressive, angry, and sometimes flat out aggressive attitude, dominates the subject lines. I am guilty of it too. It's difficult to not get roped up in a heated conversation when you feel like you are being attacked, finding new ways to one up my 'opponent'. I like to assume this is because we are all very passionate individuals, with strong opinions on what we enjoy and love! I like to assume that this is because we all want to believe that we are doing it right. After all, when we are spending our money, our hard earned, scraped together pennies, in a very difficult world, I do not want to think I am just simply, throwing it away on a whim. I understand that we all have very different opinions, whether it's that GA and SA books are the one true comic, or that blue labels are superior to the yellow label SS series. How this artist is inferior to that writer, and this era of comics suck, so why are you buying these books. My last point is, I get it, I do, but I am just hoping that some people read this, and I'm writing this out to myself as well, where I can correct some of my behaviours that I've developed, and rebuild a foundation to what I think to be is one of the greatest niche hobbies, filled with clever and insightful individuals that anyone could ask for. I Am The Answer!, dikran, Robot Man and 23 others 26 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post piper Posted March 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2022 What thread did I miss? alexgross.com, DR.X, Namtak and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post zuckuss2003 Posted March 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2022 I am curious of some example threads. There are most certainly some toxic folks on the boards but I wouldn't necessarily say the whole of the forum is toxic. piper, jsilverjanet, Larryw7 and 6 others 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
oakman29 Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 I know I haven't been around much these days. I certainly must have missed something, damn.😫 BigLeagueCHEW and Joshua33 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post greggy Posted March 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2022 On 3/30/2022 at 2:28 PM, oakman29 said: I know I haven't been around much these days. I certainly must have missed something, damn.😫 Suck it thrice, dorkette. DocSaum, toro, Domo Arigato and 21 others 2 1 19 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post THE_BEYONDER Posted March 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2022 On 3/30/2022 at 4:02 PM, D2 said: I create this thread from a true and genuine place. There will be an attempt to make this thread about comic books, in order to stay relevant to the CGC Forum guidelines, but I truly feel obligated to write this. I write this, because rather than shutting it down and closing up shop, I really do like it here, and out of frustration of the culture that seems to be developing, I want to also hear from other board members to know if I am the only one really experiencing this toxicity. But I do believe that the CGC Forum, for all its wonder, wealth of knowledge, and niche (yes, comic books are definitely niche) interests, has become a place where passive aggressive, angry, and sometimes flat out aggressive attitude, dominates the subject lines. I am guilty of it too. It's difficult to not get roped up in a heated conversation when you feel like you are being attacked, finding new ways to one up my 'opponent'. I like to assume this is because we are all very passionate individuals, with strong opinions on what we enjoy and love! I like to assume that this is because we all want to believe that we are doing it right. After all, when we are spending our money, our hard earned, scraped together pennies, in a very difficult world, I do not want to think I am just simply, throwing it away on a whim. I understand that we all have very different opinions, whether it's that GA and SA books are the one true comic, or that blue labels are superior to the yellow label SS series. How this artist is inferior to that writer, and this era of comics suck, so why are you buying these books. My last point is, I get it, I do, but I am just hoping that some people read this, and I'm writing this out to myself as well, where I can correct some of my behaviours that I've developed, and rebuild a foundation to what I think to be is one of the greatest niche hobbies, filled with clever and insightful individuals that anyone could ask for. Dr. Balls, AGGIEZ, B2D327 and 5 others 3 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THE_BEYONDER Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 On 3/30/2022 at 5:31 PM, greggy said: Suck it thrice, dorkette. Quiet noob kimik and oakman29 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlyweaknesskryptonite Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 On 3/30/2022 at 4:42 PM, THE_BEYONDER said: On 3/30/2022 at 4:31 PM, greggy said: Suck it thrice, dorkette. Quiet noob greggy and SkOw 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bird Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 On 3/30/2022 at 5:31 PM, greggy said: Suck it thrice, dorkette. I've missed the true you SkOw, oakman29 and greggy 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NoMan Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 (edited) The internet is an open sewer. Like many things in life, you've got to dig through the dung to find a nugget of gold here or there and the CGC boards are no different. There's a nugget or three or four of gold around here but it's mostly dung and I can certainly understand getting tired of wading through the fecal sludge here to find that nugget or two of wisdom. The ignore function is helpful but far from perfect. Edited March 30, 2022 by NoMan The Lions Den, silverseeker, djzombi and 1 other 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post october Posted March 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2022 On 3/30/2022 at 4:56 PM, NoMan said: The internet is an open sewer. Like many things in life, you've got to dig through the dung to find a nugget of gold here or there and the CGC boards are no different. There's a nugget or three or four of gold around here but it's mostly dung and I can certainly understand getting tired of wading through the fecal sludge here to find that nugget or two of wisdom. The ignore function is helpful but far from perfect. You don't have to dig that hard to find gold around here. Well, maybe in Comics General. The age specific subforums are usually "better". greggy, mysterio, Randall Dowling and 14 others 16 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1950's war comics Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 i'm not sure if comics are still just a niche hobby anymore.... , as far as collectibles go it is catching right up there with baseball cards and coins kimik, FoggyNelson and The humble Watcher lurking 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sigur Ros Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 tl;dr ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Popular Post MattTheDuck Posted March 30, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 30, 2022 One man's toxicity is another's vitamin pencil. Or something. Everyone has their own sensitivity level but anonymous online comments simply should not be taken to heart by anyone. SkOw, Larryw7, onlyweaknesskryptonite and 6 others 7 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
onlyweaknesskryptonite Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 On 3/30/2022 at 5:44 PM, MattTheDuck said: One man's toxicity is another's vitamin pencil. Or something. Everyone has their own sensitivity level but anonymous online comments simply should not be taken to heart by anyone. @kav kav, oakman29 and Comics4All 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MattTheDuck Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 On 3/30/2022 at 3:44 PM, onlyweaknesskryptonite said: @kav Most especially kav and Bird 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ADAMANTIUM Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 (edited) The grey are have come for this thread! Edited March 30, 2022 by ADAMANTIUM Comics4All 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
THE_BEYONDER Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 Is it time to vote someone off the island? B2D327 and ADAMANTIUM 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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